Relationship with the Mother

Madhu

Today was my mother’s death day. I was very upset about life’s disturbances and missed her a lot.

Suddenly it strikes in my mind to see Sweet Mother of Pondicherry whom I came to know from your site. I got a pic.I don’t know whether it has any significance or not as you say don’t think too much.

But I just want to know that can I keep her pic and say my desire to her. Trust me after you told me, I am chanting Switch Words and trying to not focus on result.

Naran

Tell her everything.

She is your mother.

Madhu

That’s a very sweet for me.

I tell her everything and I also say sorry about if I had done any wrong thing in my past.

I want to come out of my karmic layer.

I want to get back my love but not by forcing but by divine will.

I keep The Mother’s pic also.

Naran

Thank her every day.

In the morning and in the night for what happened. It will remove all your karmic past.

Relationship with your father = Relationship with lover

Madhu

I am following your suggestion as much I can.

I don’t know when I can see any change and when I get back that harmony.I am just doing it as and when I can.

Pls keep me and my love in your prayer always and plz ask divine to make it soon because for me it is becoming difficult to handle this hurdle period.

Naran

Understand what healing is.

If there is no change within oneself there is no change outside. If there is no harmony within, there is no harmony outside.

Your mind is not on chanting and getting relieved from the disturbing thoughts. If your mind is always on the result you will never get what you want.

Forget about the result. Aim to change your impatience. Your restlessness does not allow you to move an inch forward.

My reply can never satisfy till you change.

Thank your father profusely from the heart for what all he did to you or has been doing to you.

Any of your ungratefulness or disrespect to him, will not bring harmonious partner outside.

Madhu

Yes you are right.

I don’t have that much harmonious relationship with my father as normally people have (due to so many personal reasons).

But still I love him a lot and always trying to guide him for good health.

That’s also a reason for fear of relationship. I will try to change my thought surely as far as I can.

Prayer to our ancestors

Raju 

Thanks for the nice enriching words. Your articles are very very thought provoking.

After reading them whole day I think and apply on me. I could find changes, Words “thank you” is not enough for you.

When I read article on our ancestors I got a question which was ringing in my mind.

In Hindu culture we believe in rebirth. My query is, hopefully our ancestors would have being born again.

We are sending Reiki and gratuity and tharpanam to them. Who receives them if they had a rebirth?

If they had a rebirth do they influence us.

Naran

Do not bother about the receiver. Think about the giver.

When you give tharpanam or Reiki, you are thanking your ancestors through those methods.

Thanks and attitude of gratitude alone move the world.

You are born through your parents. By thanking them, you thank the Divine who is unseen life giver behind every birth.

While thanking your parents, you serve yourself better.

You cannot offer anything to the Divine direct. A medium is necessary; here the parents are the medium.

Continue. Continue please, without any doubt. Divine(Shivam) fills you with Sathya and you become Sundaram.

Power of Thanks divine

R

To chant thanks divine is almost a (happy) routine for me.

Sai

From my real experience I can say that ‘Thank you Divine’ is the most powerful word.I stared using this after reading your 2013 New Year message.

It works perfect.

Thank you for showing this.

Not satisfied with my job

Mukund

I’m not satisfied with the job that I’m doing now and I’m searching for a good job. Want to get a job in a good company which can offer me a good salary.

Naran

Chant “WILD OAT, WILLOW, FIND DIVINE JOB COUNT NOW DONE”.

While searching for the job, don’t blame the present job.

Give your 100% to the present job.

Thank all the colleagues who are working with you and the management daily.

It is God who is providing you the job and it is God who is giving you salary. Thank him daily.

You can get a job to your satisfaction.

Explanation

Unless you thank the current situation – people and places in it, you will not be happy in the future situations.

Unless you give 100% of yourself and your talents totally you will never achieve job satisfaction.

Not relived yet from current company

Divya

I do work for a MNC company where I’m serving my notice period as I have got job in another company.

I haven’t got the confirmation for reliving yet from my current company.Daily one reason or the other they’re giving me.

I have to get relieved this week and report to the new company by Monday.

Please help me out by this situation.

Naran

Chant “CHESTNUTBUD, GENTIAN, WILDROSE”.

Thank the one who is supposed to give the relieving order.

Nerves are getting weak

Sasi

 I feel my nerves are getting weak.

Pls suggest me some mantras.

Naran

Chant, “THANKS DIVINE ORDER”

Need to give a demo of a lesson

Vini

By profession, I am a teacher.

From last 1 month I am forwarding my resume and giving interviews in many schools but something happens and I don’t get selected or the salary is very low.

Now it is April end and the schools are closing, I need a job with good salary and a good school.

Naran

Thank all your life events from the past.

Chant “CRYSTAL GORSE WILLOW WOLF REACH HELP job COUNT NOW DONE”.

VI

I got a call for the interview. I need to give a demo of a lesson. I’m preparing for it.

Plz help me with a switch word to get this job as well as good package.

Naran

Chant “ELM, HEATHER for presentation.

Write “WATERVIOLET, LARCH, GENTIAN, WILDROSE” for interview

Need some money right now

Prassu

I’m preparing for a national exam and wanted to get succeed in it and I need some money right now.

Pls advise me a mantra for me to get some part-time job.

These days I’m scared of everything like people, situations, problems, for every work I wanted to start, and fearing for everything.

Naran

Say the statement three times and forget it:

“I open up to the divine rays of money”.

“I thank the divine for giving me the job and money”.

Need a green signal from manager

Mahesh

I am chanting “TOGETHER FIND DIVINE Job COUNT NOW DONE”.

In one of the company everything is through and even offer letter is also ready. But, practice manager is not giving green signal to HR to release it.

Naran

Thank the manager for giving the green signal. 

My watches stops working

Anita

As I am very much fond of wrist watches I have collection of 13-14 watches. I and my mom both are wearing the same while going office/out.

When she uses any of them, it works for years. Once if I wore any one of them it stops working for no reason (as I have habit to wear different watch every day).

This is the story of every time but this time same is happening after 4-5 years.

Now also yesterday a very fine wristwatch was working properly in my mom’s hand.I wore and by afternoon it stopped working.

Naran

Thank the watch before wearing.

Money to restart share business

N.S. Venkataraman

I urgently require Rs.3 lakh to restart my share business.

Naran

Chant “END POINT PRAISE THANKS TOGETHER GIVE COUNT DIVINE NOW”

Money to buy house and car

Priya

So long I plan to buy house and car, but I don’t have money.

Naran

When you don’t have money why do you need both?

Priya

It is necessary.

Naran

Chant “FORGIVE LOVE THANK” daily 500 times.

Three times say, “I thank the divine for providing me house and car. I release this intention to the field of Divine”.

Forget the intention then. Do this daily.

Marry with mental peace

VV

I am 32 and not married as yet. I am a south Indian in love with a north Indian girl and we were seeing each other for last 3 years.

Our parents were opposing our marriage but since we did not want to marry without their consent, we spent time convincing them all along.

Now all of a sudden, the girl has lost hope and is giving up. So, I am under immense pressure to marry immediately.

At this point I need guidance and peace. I would like to surrender to the god and accept whatever he chooses for me.

Is there any mantra that you can guide me in order to get married and have mental peace?

Naran  

Chant the affirmation often, “I THANK the DIVINE for making me peaceful”. 

Write “I OPEN and ALIGN myself with the DIVINE ORDER” 21 times daily in a notebook.

Always think, “Anything that is good to me will be with me. Anything that is bad (not required) will be disallowed by the Divine. I thank the divine for guiding me”.

Make the people behave the way you prefer

Grace

It is very interesting just thanking people for the behavior you prefer actually has been working everywhere. It showed me there is a lack of gratitude in my life.

Just do what Naran says. Do not ask too many questions. They are all excuses!

It still heard to believe with my mind but my heart knows it’s true!!

Losing jewelry

Sunitha

I have been losing gold jewelry items since 1987. Like my ring fell off, and earrings dropped.

Do I have hope to receive them back?

Naran

Chant “CHICORY, CHESTNUT BUD” daily for 42 days.

End the chanting by thanking god for giving to somebody who needed it.

Long life with good health

M

What can we chant for long life and good health of our parents?

Naran

Chant “REDCHESTNUT, THANKS DIVINE ORDER”

Kitchen is a place of love and not anger

Nayana

Few days back, I burnt my right forearm while I was cooking.

Though, I knew for some reason this accident happened, but I was ignorant not to talk to you. Now it’s completely healed but left with marks.

Please tell me what the message is for me and what I can chant for these burnt marks. Also, I need your advice for avoid such accident.

Naran

When we do cooking, we should not keep thinking angry thoughts within us. 

“Stop your anger against a male” is the message.

You may be doing over work, but instead of getting angry and frustrated, find out ways of lessening the burden of work.

Or do the work with pleasure not thinking about any previous incident or person.

Chant “OM HREEM TAHA”.

You may be right in getting angry. Kitchen is a place of love.

Does that mean we cannot express our anger at all?

Yes, you can. Go to a room. Take a pillow. Pounce on it with all your anger till you are satisfied.

Think the person while banging the pillow.

Then do the forgiving exercise.

Exhaust your animalist tendency. Then bring the Spiritual quality.

Go to kitchen as if you were entering for the first time. Cook with joy and love.

Thank everything that you have to cook, including the vessels and stove. Act with kindness as if you were mother to your husband.

Interview in my dream company

Vid

I am working for an IT firm for past 3 years. The work here is not too great and there is a lot of politics. I want to go out of this company and change my job.

I am not able to clear any interviews.

What should I do?

I have an interview with my dream company anytime this weekend. I want to make sure I do well in that.

Please help me.

Naran

Before going to any interview, thank the existing company, your colleagues, your bosses and people who do office politics.

Think what you learnt from the company. For that only you are sent to work there.

Thank god for what you have learnt from that environment, for what you have received as salary etc.

Don’t harbor any hatred for anybody of the existing company.

Then chant “AMBIKA ANADINIDANA ASHWAROODA APARAAJITHA” and attend the interview.

In great need of money

Client

I am in great need of money. I tried all mantras and chanting.

Though, I didn't see any result I expected that at least I’ll gain some confidence in myself that I can get over the situation. But none of them happened.

What should I do?

Naran

You squandered money when it was there.

Do the forgiving and thanking exercise for all those who gave you anything – right from parents to relatives and friends who gave you money and provided something.

In short thank for everything you have received so far from anybody – even thank the known and unknown who gave you some help also.

Find out whether you have lied or betrayed anybody in the past e.g., in childhood days, when money was not given to you by the parents, you might have cheated on them.

Recall those incidents and say “I AM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME, LOVE THANKS DIVINE”.

Then chant “THANKS DIVINE ORDER TOGETHER GIVE COUNT NOW ON”.

When you want to receive and your mind gets hooked on to receiving only, you will not get anything.

Write “I ALIGN with the part of me which is committed to GIVE”.